探索溺爱对青少年发展的影响

本文通过分析人们溺爱孩子的现象，揭示溺爱对孩子的发展所造成的不良影响。作者通过问卷调查的方式，求证溺爱是家庭教育中阻碍青少年发展的不利因素。同时，期待通过与“溺爱会有益于青少年的发展”这一观点进行辩论，指出青少年很容易因为被溺爱而导致他们的性格、能力、人生观和世界观产生偏差。除了列举溺爱所带来的不良影响之外，本文还谈及“保护”与“溺爱”之间的区别，建议家长在青少年的教育问题上一定要有正确的态度。针对溺爱这一教育误区，作者还提出了一些解决的方案，以指导家长们避免溺爱孩子，告诫大家要为青少年的发展提供健康的环境空间；引导大家认识到青少年的教育问题决不应该被忽视；同时，还警醒大家这又是一个需要时间、耐性以及父母和子女之间的良好沟通才能解决的问题。

关键词：溺爱, 影响, 家长, 孩子
Abstract

This paper analyses the reasons why people tend to overindulge their children and discloses the bad influence of overindulging on the development of the youth. Based on the angle from both the parents and children, through the method of questionnaire, the author of this paper tries to point out that children are easily spoiled by overindulgence which causes some bad influence on their character, ability, philosophy, and their world outlook when they grow up. And look forward to proving that overindulgence is an unfavorable factor in family education which did harm to the development to the children by debating with the viewpoint that overindulging would do well to the youth. Besides listing the bad influence of overindulgence, this paper also distinguished the difference between “protect” and “overindulge”, advised that parents must have the right attitude towards family education of the youth. Contra posing the educational problem of overindulgence, this paper makes out some solution so as to guide the parents to avoid overindulging children and providing a better and healthier environment for the youth and help them to realize that the problems of the education of children must never be overlooked. However, the solvent of this problem needs time, patience, and good communication between parents and children.

Key words: overindulgence, influence, parents, children

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